So, you've been together for a while and the spark has dimmed. There are a number of things you can do to reignite that spark and they all start with focus. Using the Law of Attraction we know that focus, emotion, and inspired action can add up to success. If you are stumped on what to do this Valentine's Day, hopefully these ideas will help to inspire you.
1. Plan a surprise. This doesn't have to be something big or expensive, but it should entail some effort. You should know your partner better than anyone else. Use that knowledge to develop a wonderful surprise for them.
2. Send sweet or sexy text messages. Sometimes phone calls aren't appropriate, for example, when your partner is at work or otherwise busy. A private text message however, is usually acceptable. Another advantage of a text message is that they can leave it in their phone and reread it when the mood strikes.
3. Strip for your spouse. You don't have to have the perfect body for this, you only need confidence. Try taking a course if you want, read a book on it, or even look online. There are free articles on how to strip that can certainly guide you.
4. Share your fantasies and act them out. There are of course fantasies that are better kept in the theatre of the mind than actually acted out; but those can certainly be shared and enjoyed by both parties even if you don't want to perform them. Those you both find intriguing to perform can certainly bring a spark back into things. Keep in mind that the fantasies you share are meant to heighten your sexual experiences so be mindful of your partner and their feelings. In other words, if you have a fantasy of sleeping with your partner's best friend and they won't appreciate this, you of course wouldn't want to share that.
5. Keep a notebook in a special, easy to reach place in your house. If appropriate, keep a beautiful journal on a coffee table in the living room. This journal is just for you both to write those special moments in. We have all had the experience of seeing our partner walk into a room and feel them take our breath away; write that down. When your partner does something that touches you, write it down. You can both turn to this journal and read what the other has written enjoying the love and the special moments over and over again.
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